Solution : https://service.sap.com/sap/support/notes/537486 (SAP Service marketplace login required)
Key words : 
symptom performance problems occur, terms bp_exchange_r3_to_crm reason, notes describe options, /305334250523003for importing data, initial download, program error, xif interface493343, performance, customer_main, customer_release
Related Notes : 
       
| 825232 | Suppressing the DeltaQueue update | 
| 637065 | Deactivate table logging for application tables | 
| 581218 | Change documents are written during initial load | 
| 541407 | Mass queue causes performance problems | 
| 533425 | Initial download CUSTOMER_MAIN: Long runtimes in R/3 system | 
| 523003 | Initial download CUSTOMER_REL: long runtimes in R/3 | 
| 520826 | Initl download CUSTOMER_REL:Too many relationships per block | 
| 519467 | SAP BP: Long runtime with initial download CUSTUMER_REL | 
| 499906 | Performance improvement when creating business partners | 
| 493343 | Performance of initial data transfer via XIF adapter | 
| 489087 | Sending only BP relationships that are actually changed |